Hxdream

What to watch out for

Recently I had 2 events that had me noticing something very important that I felt the need to share.

My mind frame, the way I – THINK – is opposite to the way most people in society think.

What affects 99.9% of people usually has a different affect on me.

Let me explain…

The way most people interpret situations & receive information is the way they were programed by society as the normal way of how one should react in situations and feel.

For example being cheated on – Most people in society have tons of personal feelings around being cheated on.

Key word PERSONAL – meaning that when the cheating happens, they internalize the reason & the mind will produce the common narratives “How could they” “I am not good enough” & “x.y.z”

However for me, being cheated on was my catalyst to my complete tranformation and renewal of mind from the matrix.

Don’t get me wrong, no one appreciates the feeling of being cheated on, that I can acknowledge.

So how did I have the ability to feel deeply grateful for the experience of being cheated on?

….because the experience had me wake up to a new narrative. One that was fully downloaded by a higher state of consciousness.

Cheating had nothing to do with me.

Maybe I was involved in events that could of led to the motive of cheating but my past partner cheating on me had nothing to do with me and everything to do with him.

SO WHY WOULD IT BE PERSONAL TO ME?

Why would I absorb and internalize the narratives of anything other than asking “what is this experience showing me?”

Of course some of us may start thinking “This is someone you loved how do you not let it affect you?”

I did not overlook the cheating, it sucks it happened but it happened for a reason. There was something I was not waking up to & the cheating was the wake up call.

The cheating had to do with him and his own personal internal conflicts that he had going on with himself.

Yes, Love is suppose to symbolize faith & honesty but he had to love himself first in order to know how to fully love me.

I was unable to see through sleeping eyes during our relationship that he did not fully love himself yet.

When I had this big realization I was beyond grateful for the experience as it did not imprison me or keep me in fear of my next partners.

There are no personal triggers around cheating since the alchemy took place in that moment of my realization to all of it.

Now going back to absorbing other peoples projection.

I recently had 2 events that I did not take personally.

I understood exactly why the situation needed to play out the way it did.

I have to leave the personal details out to protect the privacy & integrity of those involved.

Of course I was okay with it but when others around me, to be modest around 50+ people expressed their own opinions on it. I felt the projections of their own thoughts onto the situation.

Now just for disclaimer reasons – I did not go around talking about the situation.

As I said it did not affect me emotionally so I didn’t think twice about it however the situation was revealed naturally through people inquiring through a common question.

Most everyone’s reaction was shock & they thought there was something wrong.

It wasn’t until the so many people started to react the same that it started to create a tiny bit of discomfort for me.

There is great importance in removing the little I (ego) in situations such as this. I could of ran with the narrative and seen it the way everyone else wanted to see it but gratefully the bigger picture is what matters to me.

I stand grounded in my own being & never think less than of myself.

I don’t let situations define me.

IF my worth & value is in question for someone else

THAT IS THEIR PROBLEM NOT MINE TO WORRY ABOUT.

I conclude with sharing with you the importance of standing grounded in your own feelings surrounding situation.

Just because other people react in a certain way doesn’t mean that you have to.

For example if you like to celebrate life when someone passes instead of mourning, then do so.

Take the route less followed, the route less considered because what I have found is that the route less traveled has more to offer.

The route is expansive and full of freedom.

Paint your own colors, define your own feelings & choose your own narratives.

Don’t let others way of personalizing everything become something that you absorb.

I would personally spend less time with people that live too much in personalization – that’s just me.

People are going to project their own insecurities/fears onto you when you step out of the box around things.

Notice if you were grounded before their projection vs how you feel after all the projections of other peoples thoughts and opinions.

If you were grounded before & now shifted once everyone chimed in then you know that those you absorbed feelings that are not yours.

Leave what isn’t yours.

Sending you so many blessings and love – Stay awake 🙂